Red lights are there for a reason, so are red flags.
We follow the red lights and it’s like a rule that we have to stop and we do. What about red flags though? Why can’t we stop ourselves from doing things that are so obvious to be wrong? It’s like we have that drive to break the rules or is it that hope that it was just a thought in our head that it’s a red flag but in reality it might not be.
I have never found an answer to this. But I keep going against those red flags. I keep torturing myself and doing stuff that makes me pay later on.
Mostly with people in my life. So many red flags, but I still let them in.